Love Yourself

This blog is a little life lesson that I learned over the years...Happiness begins with learning to love yourself. This process starts with you knowing who and what you are. I don't mean by the standards of the people around you but by knowing your “real self”, not only the side that we would like to think that we are ( that one that every one else thinks we should be) but the “dark” side... the one that the fires of life will expose to you. We all have a dark side and we have no idea of what we might be capable of until we find ourselves in that particular situation that is especially challenging. Trust yourself ; your judgment is just as good as anyone else in the same situation as your are. Pay more attention to the person in the place you want to be. Trust no one, be skeptical of everything that you hear. Remember that 95% of the people you meet are out for their own agendas (this includes friends and family members) Be able to be comfortable with yourself. Personally I could be locked up by myself for hours or even days and be happy as a clam. Most of all let no one else define who you are and what you should be. You be the judge of that; your hopes and dreams are just as good as the next persons. Follow the parts of the Bible that is God, not the parts that man put in in order to make you submit to their will. Proverbs is a great guide. I do know that if you follow them they work. Following these rules will bring harmony to your life. Last but not least grow a thick skin. People will come at you with every sort of game that can be thought of ...They will say things to hurt you or put you in the same place that they are. Don't be a party to that let people think what they will ...they will think and feel this way anyway so the only thing you can do is keep being you and down the line people will see that and respect you. Remember it really doesn't matter if you like me or not but what does matter is that you may have to learn to live with it because that's the way it is. So hold on to your hopes and dreams and go for what you want. Listen to yourself. All times may not be good but you will have as many good days as bad. So keep on trucking. No ones perfect and this includes you . There will be mistakes and lots of bad judgments but just keep shooting for your goals, surround yourself with people who will help you to get to where you're going and leave behind those who wish to hold you back. So keep heading towards the goal who knows you may end up laughing all the way to the bank

Madmac 2012